https://marco.org/2009/02/03/they-decided-not-to-learn-the-gender-of-the-baby
They decided not to learn the gender of the baby ahead of time, which made ALL of us nuts. However, after watching him run to the waiting room tonight and witnessing him utterly break down with pride and joy as he announced the arrival of his first born, a son, I damn near lost it. My mother lost it. Hell, four strangers anxiously awaiting the news of their own new relative lost it. It was one of the most deeply profound moments I have ever been privileged to witness and I have a completely new perspective about the decision to wait to meet your child until the big day.